I’m being cheated on............ I think!

So I’m sitting here and I started thinking about all the stories I’ve been told about how friends of mines have spouses that have been cheating on them, and the procedures they went through to prevent that from happening. Honestly it’s pretty dumb! We and I say we because I’m guilty of it too, we go through hell and back stressing about whether or not our boyfriend or girlfriend is going to cheat on us and in the end the only person that ends up hurt is us.

Honestly most of the time if you cheat through your entire relationship and you get caught you feel bad mainly because you got caught not because your truly sorry that you hurt the person you cheated on, because if you were then you would have just broke up with that person period. But any who we go through extreme measures to catch a person cheating like hiring private investigators, hacking into facebook, email accounts and twitters and honestly if and only if we find something we never leave the person, we just bitch about it and then the cheating spouse switches up on their style.

No matter what we do in life to prevent a person from cheating if a person is going to cheat then they are going to cheat, sorry but that’s the truth. So here are a list of not things not to do if you think you are being cheated on. These examples are based on true facts, honestly.

1. Don’t count condoms and then tell them you are counting condoms. All they are going to do is keep a secret pack that you know nothing about.

2. Don’t pop up at the house, if they have a feeling you will pop up at the house they will not go home.

3. Staying under your spouse all day does not prevent cheating if they really want to cheat on you they will go run an errand and have sex maybe in the car before they come home.

4. Doing a bed check for smells and spots will not prevent your spouse from cheating they will have sex in chairs, or on the floor, or just wash the sheets before you come over.

5. Calling all day will not prevent them from cheating they will have sex while they are on the phone with you.

6. Checking phones and facebooks and twitters and then letting them know your checking their stuff will not prevent them from cheating they will just change their passwords.

7. Checking your spouse for hair and lipstick and the smell of another man or woman will not prevent them from cheating because a smart person would just freshen up before they see you.

8. Telling your spouse they are not allowed to have the opposite sex as a friend is definitely not going to work because now days they could be having sex with the same sex.

9. Just because you tell your spouse you have a feeling they are cheating on you will not make them fly right it just makes them cover up their tacks.

10. Do not hire a private investigator save your money, it’s not like they are going to tell you what your gut hasn’t already said in the beginning.

These examples are not meant to get the cheaters caught up or to make people paranoid it’s to relieve the people who are being cheated on some stress. After we stop doing all of this think of how much time we will have on our hands to relax and take a drink. I say keep your daily routine and never let your spouse know that you are on to them, because one day they will get comfortable and reckless and before you know it you’ll have your bags packed and ready to go on a singles vacation with the money you would have spent on a private investigator

Building Your Recycling Factory
By

Derek “Pretty Boy” Dow

Love is any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection[1] and attachment. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure ("I loved that meal") to intense interpersonal attraction ("I love my boyfriend"). This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.
Love is an extremely powerful emotion; it can be irresistible and people are often bound to pursue their love interests. Love is a major theme in literature, poetry, and film.
Ok now that that is out the way and some of you are more educated to the definition of love I want to talk about what fuels it.

Now what it takes to fuel each individuals love is definitely on a case by case basis but I want to talk about the general points.

Most people love to use the circle as a symbol of undying love (i.e. the wedding ring). I like to think that great love should be represented by the recycling symbol. Why you might ask? Simple. The process of recycling takes something old and makes it into something new it constantly refuels and refreshes. While…the circle is just the same run around.

How does my theory go into affect in real life? Well look at it like this when you first start having sex missionary is awesome but after awhile it gets less appealing. People who live in the ring are doomed to fail because nothing new is being added. The people who are recyclers always add a new component to refuel and refresh.

Finding the Proper Mate

A lot of us even myself look for the wrong things in a mate. My downfall is looks I see a beautiful woman and I forget she has kids, her baby daddy a drug dealer, she whack in bed, she lazy, etc. I’ll ignore all of that just for the hour or two we are in public so people can see how fine she is. And I’m pretty sure you guys have your weak spots too. This can be fixed if you use the recycling technique. If you are honest enough with yourself to figure out what you need to be refueled and refreshed then you can find your perfect mate.

Meaning women if you know u need a man with money get one because it will not be fair for u to break down a good man with less money because he does not meet your standards. Men if you know you want a fully uninhibited woman who is totally open in the bedroom. Then don’t settle. Unless she has something so awesome in another part of her life that you can’t live without, her timid ness will soon start to piss u off. And that is counter productive.

We as people have to become honest with ourselves and get the perfect or at least the base ingredients needed to start our Recycling factories. Now the ingredients will change as we grow and evolve but that’s why we are recycling being open to new things that will refresh and recharge and constantly make things a new.

So take the time out right now and really think if the person you are with now is worth it. Does he or she really satisfy you in the way you want and specially the way you need. If not part ways you are hurting each other in the long run. It’s time to build your Factory.