Building Your Recycling Factory
By

Derek “Pretty Boy” Dow

Love is any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection[1] and attachment. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure ("I loved that meal") to intense interpersonal attraction ("I love my boyfriend"). This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.
Love is an extremely powerful emotion; it can be irresistible and people are often bound to pursue their love interests. Love is a major theme in literature, poetry, and film.
Ok now that that is out the way and some of you are more educated to the definition of love I want to talk about what fuels it.

Now what it takes to fuel each individuals love is definitely on a case by case basis but I want to talk about the general points.

Most people love to use the circle as a symbol of undying love (i.e. the wedding ring). I like to think that great love should be represented by the recycling symbol. Why you might ask? Simple. The process of recycling takes something old and makes it into something new it constantly refuels and refreshes. While…the circle is just the same run around.

How does my theory go into affect in real life? Well look at it like this when you first start having sex missionary is awesome but after awhile it gets less appealing. People who live in the ring are doomed to fail because nothing new is being added. The people who are recyclers always add a new component to refuel and refresh.

Finding the Proper Mate

A lot of us even myself look for the wrong things in a mate. My downfall is looks I see a beautiful woman and I forget she has kids, her baby daddy a drug dealer, she whack in bed, she lazy, etc. I’ll ignore all of that just for the hour or two we are in public so people can see how fine she is. And I’m pretty sure you guys have your weak spots too. This can be fixed if you use the recycling technique. If you are honest enough with yourself to figure out what you need to be refueled and refreshed then you can find your perfect mate.

Meaning women if you know u need a man with money get one because it will not be fair for u to break down a good man with less money because he does not meet your standards. Men if you know you want a fully uninhibited woman who is totally open in the bedroom. Then don’t settle. Unless she has something so awesome in another part of her life that you can’t live without, her timid ness will soon start to piss u off. And that is counter productive.

We as people have to become honest with ourselves and get the perfect or at least the base ingredients needed to start our Recycling factories. Now the ingredients will change as we grow and evolve but that’s why we are recycling being open to new things that will refresh and recharge and constantly make things a new.

So take the time out right now and really think if the person you are with now is worth it. Does he or she really satisfy you in the way you want and specially the way you need. If not part ways you are hurting each other in the long run. It’s time to build your Factory.

Quantity vs. Quality?

Hey blog world, today I wanted to discuss quantity verses quality, as you know there is a huge double standard between men and women even though women have come a long way to walk in some of the shoes men do, the sad truth is that double standards will always exist with the biggest double standard being the number of sexual partners women and men are allowed to have before it becomes unacceptable. Though it is more acceptable for men to have many sexual partners it does diminish the quality of man, because just like men don’t want females that have a huge number of sexual partners neither does the female. Being a woman myself I do find that it is a turn off if I meet a guy who has had sex with every chick they've met, because their self value has gone down. I don't want a guy that every woman has had, however it is more forgivable
because with men sex is physical and not mental.
Now some may feel that in a mans case the more women the more experience but I feel that you can learn a lot with just one person, it's just a matter of wanting to get to know each others body, and further more their likes. Plus both of you have to want to try new things because otherwise it just goes south.
Ladies I didn’t forget about you I love that we are independent but the truth is that the double standard in this particular case is never going to end. Anything men can do we can do better, but when it comes down to multiple sexual partners let's be honest it’s not really cute. No man is going to disagree with a woman that wants to just have casual sex because they don’t plan on taking you home to meet mom ever. If he does then deep down it was a mistake and he has yet to admit it.Now I hang around a lot of guys and I learned guys won't tell you if they think your a hoe. The sad truth is they will have sex with you even play house, but when they have the conversation with their guys about why u didn’t make the cut it's because they secretly think your a hoe.
This blog is not to offend women and it shouldn't especially if you are secure with yourself and if your secure with yourself then this blog will not faze you. Now I’m no angel trust and like I said before I'm not trying to offend anyone but it frustrates me that it's so many women that don’t own up to the fact that they use to be or have hoe like mannerisms. Not only that, they sit here and they say well if men can sleep around so can I and it liberates us, but no it doesn't it actually liberate us, it makes you a hoe and it sets the real independent hard working women back a couple of years. Ladies realize that that same man who has many sexual partners is still going to end up with a woman that has fewer to none sexual partners, and you are most likely going to end up 40 years old alone still hanging where the 22 year olds hang looking for a man. Blog world what do you think, does having many sexual partners diminish the quality of a woman or man? Does the quantity of sexual partners enhance the quality of sex?