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Tuesday, July 20, 2010
"What's on My Mind" Vol. Love...you'll be lucky to get Like
I feel that people forget that dating is the part where you get to know one another. Now days people so desperate to find love that just because you click with someone right away we trick ourselves right into thinking its love. You can click with many people in the world at the same time but that doesn't mean yall meant to be. But we don't think like that. we say oh I found somebody I click with and we have sex then we play house and then that person turns out to be somebody evil later down the line or you the flame burns out fast. Honestly nobody knows anybody that well and that's what dating is for. U develop a friendship, u spend time with the person,see how they interact with ur friends and family, u get to know the person and you trust them,then once you've hit a certain point you decide if you want to take it to next level like marriage. How can you do that when u jump from the first date to playing house as you play house all the things you didn't know pop out at you and like most unlucky people you end up stuck trying to make the best of a bogus situation you could have just avoided if you got to know the person. Yea I think its a lot of liking and not loving cuz how can you love somebody if you really don't know them. I think in a relationship we have to be friends and lovers because when the lust dies the friendship keeps the love alive forever and always
I feel that people forget that dating is the part where you get to know one another. Now days people so desperate to find love that just because you click with someone right away we trick ourselves right into thinking its love. You can click with many people in the world at the same time but that doesn't mean yall meant to be. But we don't think like that. we say oh I found somebody I click with and we have sex then we play house and then that person turns out to be somebody evil later down the line or you the flame burns out fast. Honestly nobody knows anybody that well and that's what dating is for. U develop a friendship, u spend time with the person,see how they interact with ur friends and family, u get to know the person and you trust them,then once you've hit a certain point you decide if you want to take it to next level like marriage. How can you do that when u jump from the first date to playing house as you play house all the things you didn't know pop out at you and like most unlucky people you end up stuck trying to make the best of a bogus situation you could have just avoided if you got to know the person. Yea I think its a lot of liking and not loving cuz how can you love somebody if you really don't know them. I think in a relationship we have to be friends and lovers because when the lust dies the friendship keeps the love alive forever and always
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